Resist the urge! Who needs a coach anyway?
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Resist the urge! Who needs a coach anyway?

Resist the urge! Who needs a coach anyway! Truth be told, no one needs a coach. Plus who wants to sit and listen to a coach hold me bigger than I hold myself? This might mean I have to do something different - and sometimes I think the world would be much better if certain people just did things my way!

One of my biggest hot buttons is when people don’t take responsibility for themselves. As if an apology would kill their inner-victim through the cremation of their own passive aggression. As you may be able to hear, my buttons were seriously pushed last week. So I had an opportunity to practice my coaching homework- which was to be more aware of my urges before I act on them.

In fortitude, I decided NOT to give this person a colorful piece of my mind. Which required a new approach. So I asked my a few team members for help dealing with this situation and we aligned on not stepping over anything. We addressed the conflict straight on as respectfully as possible. We were able to hear this person's perspective beyond the way it came across. The good news is because of this experience, I was inspired to write something in gratitude.

"Organic Goodness"
There is Unlimited Powerful Good in this Universe.
This Precious Connection is Greater than me and Greater than you; it is within us and connects us; Completely Loving and Completely Accepting All the Time and Everywhere.
We embody this Organic Goodness in each cell of our Being. In our Thoughts; In our Words; In our Actions; In our Impact. I am Grateful for I know that this Super Soul is already demonstrating in our lives. Creating an expression of Abundant Love. I release these words to the Law of Holy Expression. Allowing Infinite Good to act within my Life. Right here and Right Now. Namaste!

After I wrote that I took a big deep breath and felt calmer. In fact, every time I read it I smile. It helps me see that we are all learning at our own pace. The results of a good coach are so unique that I want to share it. I am want YOU to have YOUR OWN UNIQUE valuable coaching experience.

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In closing, remember no one needs a coach. The questions is do you want one? I love to hear your stories. Please let me know your thoughts about what you do when someone pushes your buttons!

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Nina Segura, MA, CSSBB, CPCC

Business Transformation Expert | Fractional COO | Executive Coach | Six Sigma Black Belt | Business Process Architect

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Claire Sherry Immediato You are so brilliant. It is an honor to be in your world!

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Nina, I'm just on my way to see a new coach hired by our organization for the executive team. While you know me well enough to know I value coaching in the abstract, I have been dreading this - seems like one more thing to do! Thanks for the attitude adjustment! (I'm sure he'll appreciate it too.) Happy coaching!

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